Friday, December 02, 2016

Friendships

Friendship is just a tag.


But its something.
In a world full of nothings
Its a very important something.

On social media and loneliness

शायद ऐसा ही होता है लोगों के साथ... शायद ऐसे ही शुरू होता है सब कुछ. चुप रहने का सिलसिला, चुप करा देने के सिलसिले से भी शुरू हो सकता है, और चुप होने से भी.


लोग सोचते नहीं, बोलते बहुत हैं. किसी चीज़ के बारे में विचार व्यक्त करने के लिए, उस चीज़ के बारे में जानना भी ज़रूरी है, ये कहाँ लिखा है?


 बिना सोचे बोलने वालों से मुझे सख्त चिढ़ हुआ करती थी. अब भी है.


फिर देखा, चारों ओर , लोगों की बातों का शोर. इतने लोग, इतनी बातें, ज़्यादातर वो बातें जिन्हें कहने की करने की, कोई ज़रुरत ही नहीं. और बातें भी, वो नहीं जो ऐसे ही दोंस्तों में की जाएँ। सारी दुनिया को सुनाई जाएँ और उन से टिपण्णी की उम्मीद भी हो.


वे लोग, जिनकी बातें अच्छी लगती हैं, धीरे धीरे काम बात करने लगे. फूहड़पन बेशर्म भी होता है. दानाई शर्मीली. बस  यही हुआ हमारी दुनिया के साथ. दानाई शर्मा गयी, फूहड़पन को मंच मिल गया..यही मंच आगे जा कर सोशल मीडिया बना. 


और अंदर की बातें? अंदर ही खो गयी कहीं. न कोई हमनवा, न हमराज़, न हमदम, न हबीब।

Thursday, December 01, 2016

The Unaccounted money at the bottom of the pyramid

Background Information:
Only 1% of India's population pays income tax. The tax rate slab in India is 2.4 lacs for adults for the current financial year. Agriculture , which is a tax exempt sector, employs  about 57% of India's population. This means that of the remaining 43% of the population, 42% earn less than 2.4 lacs a year.

The Trigger:
On 8th November, 2016, something changed in India. By some estimates, 85% of our currency became invalid overnight.


The queues since then - mostly composed of the underprivileged, made all of us uncomfortable. Some of them had been paid to stand in that line. But a lot of others were there because they were a part of an all cash economy.


As time passed and the queues did not get any shorter, it set me thinking about the real size of the cash economy at the bottom of the pyramid. How much cash is really there at the bottom of the pyramid, that is not entering the system at all? (And is, therefore, black money)?


So, this morning, I did some back of envelope calculations, hoping to get some sense of the all cash economy that hides at the bottom of the pyramid


The bottom of the pyramid has its own hierarchy(see note below).


For my analysis, I decided to focus only on the primary income generators, as a reliable measure of  cash at the bottom of the pyramid. This is because B and C re-use the cash generated by A. They may add to the size of the economy, but I am interested in the size of the cash chest alone. The size of the economy will be about 2 or 3 times the size of the cash chest as the money gets recycled.


Determining the Set of Primary Income Generators
After this, I zeroed in on some occupations where I have some idea of the margins, daily income, ticket size et al. 


Methodology
I just followed very simple back of envelope calculation. So, average order/ ticket size, no. of orders per day, margins (because according to Indian tax law, business is allowed to deduct expenses before arriving at income) and no. of working days per annum.


For monthly workers, I used average income per month, plus additional income (bonuses, overtime etc).


At first, I couldn't believe the numbers that appeared on that screen. So I did some more changes - reduced the working days, reduced the no. of tickets per day and so on. Even with all the changes, at the most conservative, this is how it appears.

The size of the all cash economy at the bottom of the pyramid - 2016 December


That number in INR Today is 562590 Million INR. i.e.,: 562590000000 or 562 Billion INR.



Notes:
1. This is only for a few selected occupations.


2. The number of 1000/2000/5000 vendors per city is obviously very low.




3. The hierarchy at the bottom of the pyramid:
A. Primary Income generators
These are the people who generate income from the economy and bring it to the bottom of the pyramid. Think: Vegetable vendors, pan wallas, small grocery shop owners, dhobis, malis, parking stand boys, domestic staff,  other service providers. In the money cycle, think of this as the point at which wealth enters the bottom of the pyramid.


B. Secondary Income Recyclers
These are the people who then use that money to support the bottom of the pyramid economy. Think landlords, service providers to the poor, alcohol thekas et al.


C. Consumers
These are the people who have the spending power at the bottom of the pyramid. Think home decision makers, consumers et al.


4. No. of cities in India as in 2011: 497. I have used the number of 450 for this analysis.





Monday, November 28, 2016

For you, Y

You and I, we will spend the rest of our lives burning in hell. We made our choices. Some choices were made for us. But now we have to live out the results of those choices. We chose to be true to the heart's desire. That is difficult for the lightest things. But for what our hearts desire, it is well nigh insane.


And so, my dear, we will spend our lives burning in hells of desires that cannot be fulfilled. This birth is not ours to know happiness. In this birth, we can only know pain. Endless, piercing pain. Perhaps it is our retribution for some acts of the past. But its our only reality now. For the rest of our lives. And we must make our peace with that idea.


So don't ask me what you should do. Because we cannot do it. We cannot undo it either - the cause of the pain.


When night falls, and all the masks fall off, one by one, as we prepare for bed, you and I will become aware, every single night, of a singular fact. That we are very grateful for everything we have. We are very, very privileged and we have enough to count our blessings by. But we are not happy. And we cannot hide behind gratitude to run away from that. Gratitude is not happiness. Meditation is not an antidote to this pain. And anti depressants cannot convert a lie into a truth. 





Saturday, November 26, 2016

Today


I would like to take today and bottle it
then age it
like premium wine
or good basmati rice
keep it for as long as possible
savor it on special occasions


But its ephemeral 
this thing called time
They are temporary
Them things called moments


They have to be gone
That's why
They are special
Here.
Now.
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A little sunshine from today
will light up
a lot of days
ahead.
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कतरनें

वह:  तुम इंसानियत के नाते ही सुन सकते थे!


यह: इंसानियत के नाते?


वह: जब किसी दुसरे इंसान को तकलीफ होती है, तो इंसानियत के नाते ही उसका दुःख बांटा जा सकता है. मैं इतनी परेशान हूँ, पर तुम दो घडी नहीं बैठते मेरे पास!


यह: अगर दुःख तुम्हारा है, तो मेरे लिए बात इंसानी नहीं, ज़याती (personal) है।  

Monday, November 14, 2016

On Being a Sikh - Simple things that try to explain why the Sikhs are so different

In the recent past, a lot of people have posted pictures of Sikhs distributing food or tea to people otherwise stranded, or of Sikhs sending food to areas affected by natural calamities. Some others have shared how the Sikhs are less than 2% of the population but contribute a lot more to the national exchequer and are a major part of the Indian Defence Forces.




And many of my friends have very kindly sent these to me. I am grateful to them. But the thing is, these pictures don't tell us anything new. This is how we have lived. This is who we have always been. The world is just noticing this now. And honestly, its a little embarrassing for us to be recognised or praised for what we have always been. The Sikhs can't brag about it. Its just our way of life. When my son was very young, we got talking about religion and he asked me why he was not a Sikh if I was a Sikh. I kissed him on the forehead and said, "Sikhi Saukhi nahi (ਸਿੱਖੀ ਸੌਖੀ ਨਹੀਂ )." ( It is not easy to be a Sikh).


Many, many of you have asked me what makes the Sikhs the way they are. I am, here, trying to answer that, as humbly as I can. While the post itself is brief, it is the result of many years of introspection. The question was first posed to me by my friend, who finished reading a book by Khushwant Singh and asked me, "What makes you Sikhs the way you are? What do you do so right in raising your children?" God knows I have tried to answer her a lot of times, and failed miserably every single time. Here is one more effort.


  • Sarbat ka bhala / सरबत का भला 
You cannot imagine how early, and how completely this is fed into our heads. In the army, there is a very popular slogan - Sabse pehle Desh, Uske baad Unit, aakhir mein khud. The Sikhs are literally born with that idea.


ALL of our scripture, all of our discourses, every single one of our stories, point to the idea that so long as even one is in danger, we are all in danger. So long as even one is poor, we are all poor. It is put into the prayer 3 times a day. It is actioned in the langar 24*7. Every single Gurudwara, before it completes its building, will have a dispensary, where very accomplished doctors will come and offer either free or heavily subsidised service. They will run programs for the poor, irrespective of religion or caste.


One of the first hymns we hear is " देह शिवा बर मोहे इहे, शुभ कर्मण ते कबहुँ न टरौ " (O Lord, grant me only this boon, that I should never shy from doing a good deed.) In my house, the key stand has this quote with a picture of Guru Gobind Singh. So this is the last thing you will read as you leave the house - Shubh Karman te Kabhun na Tarau. It is by design. I am the only Sikh in the house, but its still the last thing you will read as you leave the house, so that when you leave the house, you leave with the thought of doing a good deed.


There really is NO concept of "them" in Sikhism. Nothing in our scripture speaks about differentiation on any basis other than justice. The ONLY villain in our books is someone who is troubling others or denying them their honest due. There is no image to hate. Seriously. We only hate lies and injustice. That's a very powerful idea. We have nothing else to hate!! 


  • मीरी पीरी की तलवार (the sword of riches and spirituality)
If you are not a Sikh, this can be a little hard to get. This concept means that your might, and power, will never be without a spiritual base. You will never raise your hand except to protect the downtrodden. You will never use power for anything except the common good. It comes from the Gurus, who did become reasonably powerful in the Punjab region, but also understood that power can corrupt. So the Gurus ensured that we all understood the spiritual component of strength. And of all the Sikh concepts, this one, imho, was totally brilliant because it ensured that we remain humble in the face of great power and wealth.
  • No fear of Death
When you open your eyes (I mean, as an infant), and you hear hymns like " जो तौ प्रेम खिलन का चाव , सिर धर तली गली मोरी आओ "(If you want to participate in the sport of universal affection, you must come as if you are already beheaded)  and "इत  मार्ग पैर धरीजै , सिर दीजे कांड ना कीजे। " (If you step on this path, you may lose your head, but you must not show your back)


OR this:
देह शिवा बर मोहे ईहे, शुभ कर्मन ते कभुं न टरूं
न डरौं अरि सौं जब जाय लड़ौं, निश्चय कर अपनी जीत करौं,
अरु सिख हों आपने ही मन कौ इह लालच हउ गुन तउ उचरों,
जब आव की अउध निदान बनै अति ही रन मै तब जूझ मरों




Grant me , O Lord, only one boon: That I should not shy away from doing a good deed.
That I shall not fear when I go into combat. And with determination I will be victorious. That I may teach myself this creed alone, to speak only of Thy (allmighty lord Waheguru) praises. And when the last days of my life come, I may die in the might of the lord. (Die fighting, as against, die as an old person)


What do you expect? Then they tell us stories of the 4 Sahibzadas, of the many, many people who gave up their lives for the sake of justice, Banda Singh Bahadur ji, Baba Buddha Singh ji.... and any love you have for your mortal remains just vanishes in thin air.


We are fed on such a fertile feed of stories, hymns and prayers that focus on the fact that you may not be alive, but you must, at all times, be just and brave. They put it in the Ardaas - 3 times a day we hear this. Honest to God, we have no fear of death if it means to die in the path of justice. And as I tell The Other: "You should be very scared of someone who is not afraid to die."


In teaching children that it is ok to die if its for a good cause, we raise adults who are truly fearless. Its a very, very powerful way to live - to not value your breaths, but to value what you stand for. It cannot be explained. Or taught. You just have to inherit it as part of your growing up.
  • मन नीवा ते मत्त उच्ची 
This literally means - Let your ideals/intellect be high and your heart be humble.
But translated, it means: Do not Brag. Do not think, for a moment, that you are responsible for any good that you are doing. It is the will of God being done through you. (मेरा मुझ में कुछ नहीं, जो कुछ है सो तेरा ) - Nothing in me is mine, it is all of the God.


So this doctrine, repeated often enough, relieves us of any grandiose self concept that we might have. If nothing is mine and I am just an instrument, what's with the pride?


  • जो बोले सो निहाल, सत श्री अकाल 
Whether you are sending off your daughter to her marital home, or sending a child to war. Whether you are saying goodbye to your dear departed father, or celebrating the success of a friend, you will always do it with the same words - "He is blessed who utters these words - Only the Timeless One is the Truth". And you will always utter these words with a strong, powerful voice. Grieving has no place in our tradition. Nor does jubilation. At all times, we remember that we are all in it together, and we are all just instruments of Truth. I was so amazed to see this at my own father's funeral and at the doli of a cousin. There were no tears. There was just quiet strength. A lot of it.


  • The Egalitarianism
Again, this can be hard to get if you are not a Sikh. But you cannot tell the gender of the person by their first name. Every single Sikh name can and is used by both men and women. The Gatka is learnt by both boys and girls. While you are dreaming of a female pope , a female Mahant, or a female Imam (What?!). Sikhism has already had its highest administrative seat been taken by a woman. TWICE. The Gurus knew that egalitarianism does not come easily to human beings. So they ensured gender and race parity by ensuring that all Sikh men will have the same surname - Singh, and all Sikh women will have the same surname - Kaur. We are a long way off from effecting this - but the Gurus tried and by and large, its a very egalitarian society.


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The thing is, these and a lot of other Sikh ideas, they are necessary, to make us who we are. Because essentially, there cannot be a lot of Sikhs. The Sikhs will always be a minority. We understand that, and in all humility, we accept that. We have no goals to go to except doing good. We have no aspirations except to be humble in the face of success, and we have no fear except the fear that we may not live up to our ideals.







Wednesday, November 09, 2016

कतरनें

वह: तुम जादूगरनी हो!


यह: नहीं.


वह: नहीं?


यह: जादूगरनी को जादू करने के लिए किसी चीज़ का सहारा चाहिए. मैं तो आप ही माया हूँ.


वह: तो क्या? मोहोगी??


यह: नहीं. भंग हो जाऊंगी एक दिन. जब तक अवसर हो, भोग लो.

कतरनें

वह: तुम्हारी आँखों में बहुत उदासी है।


यह: अंदर धंसी हुई हैं. कोई नहीं देखता।


वह: पर मैं तो देखता हूँ?


यह: देखते तो आप जलियांवाला बाग़ का कुआं भी हैं.  कुछ कर पाते हैं क्या?